When we talk about pain, “will” is perhaps one of the terms in use more applicants.
You can say it all to those who are suffering, is good for any occasion and for all types of pain to set them aside from the source physical or emotional, the “will” is transverse.
It is easy to say, do not follow fashions, always serves to instill theoretical confidence in the unfortunate, and tell all the whole truth, in bottom if not then passes, eh goes well, at least i told .
You will sooner or later probably, but at this point comes in the field the contour, i.e. the physical context, psychological and cultural in which develops the pain.
Everybody indistinctly tried in life, but the pain perception is changeable and damn subjective.
If is physical is often due to something tangible, solid, perhaps not always visible but tendentially rounded often, more or less controllable.
But the real problem arises when it comes into play the mind and its likeable synergies with the heart and the emotions.
And then, from that point onwards everything gets more complicated, because it is not that this beautiful trio you’re really to listen.
The pain is treacherous because it penetrates in depth into the folds of the mind and of the soul and from them, begins to weave his web.
It is difficult to storm, why does it not follow our logic.
You cannot discuss with it and say, “Ok fine, thou hast commanded you for a little but now enough”, it does not work that way.
I do not know if there is a real recipe to overtake, but I believe that, perhaps, if you find the way to fool it with a trick, a chance to beat him we have.
Obviously, this my thought has no logical basis neither medical, but is only given by considerations of a person (me) that pain has seen and suffered enough to be already a little tired.
Between bereavement, fractures,interventions and some heavy sentimental devastations, i means the right of an expert in the field of suffer, so here’s my recipe from alchemist of Sunday.
In this period is still in the experimental stage because I’m testing on me and are not entirely aware about its real effectiveness, but from good Barker, I try to give you anyway.
I established the fact that we are all passed through the weeping poignant, desperate and inconsolable, where a song, a perfume or a dish have the power to take us in a fraction of a second to the emotional disaster.
But it is precisely when we are thinking that it does not we emerge ever, it is there that we must go to seek the aperture.
In my case the possibility of a glimpse of an escape route has been write, and frankly, I hope he will continue to be so also this time.
Write is making me concentrate and allowed me to accept letting pass through as if it were a slow electrical discharge, but at the same time to channel into something positive.
Writing I try to understand that in order to be able to exorcize it and with calm, I see a faint possibility of survival.
Because in the end it is precisely this, we must be able to survive when it seems that the world has decided to attack furiously on us, because sooner or later if we manage to keep hard, we rise on again.
It is a war without quarter in which pain is not interested in taking prisoners, but we must find a way, a stimulus, a hug or a word that will give us the strength to react and help us the time necessary to get us to say :”No Fuck, is not yet finished, don’t you win” .
Find a way, whatever yours, but let us cross from the pain without hold.
Will badly and there will be the time, perhaps very, but in the end it leave, even if everything will have a price perhaps very high.
Certainly there will change with a mark and by teaching you that nothing will be as before, but there will be still, and maybe the next times you will be a little more prepared.
The music of today is, for me, a painful and agonizing and I recommend you listen at high volume because an item of this kind must be gifted by decibels.
Volevo Scriverti da Tanto – Mina (Maeba – 2018)
See you soon